pretty girl in white tied to bed

You’re sitting there watching a movie on Saturday night, kinda cuddling and you share a few light kisses to show each other affection, maybe you even tell each other how much you appreciate and love each other. she starts to kiss you more and more passionately and starts using her tongue, she’s taken the lead and you seem to be along for the ride..What do you do?

Well first of all see this for what it is: an expression of her love for you and a way to show you that she wants to please you.

Spontaneity plays a big part in all healthy relationships and If you feel insecure about her taking the lead then you need to re-evaluate your perceptions: a king doesn’t need to wave his money around to show you he’s rich.

The best thing to do is to go with the flow and tell her what you like and tell her to do it eg. “Kiss my neck”, “a bit higher”, “breathe into my ear”, etc.

Consider that you’re really lucky to have someone that’s willing to be with you in this way and if you play it right she’ll learn more about what you like and you’ll get a lot of gratification and fulfilment from allowing her to please you.

You don’t have to tie her up and spank her every time but even as part of this play you can still pin her down or hold her hands behind her back as you sliip into your Dominant self and let things take a natural course where the odd spank, slap, pinch, tweak, squeeze, tease and torture never hurt anyone..well maybe just a bit 😉 . Live in the moment and enjoy.

ps. I almost didn’t post this because it seems so obvious and simple to me but it may help someone out there that’s new so comments welcome below.